Non-Traditional (Non-Binary) Genders, Expression, and Social Behavior: Board FAQs and Categorized Posts Version 2.6 as of July 10, 2008

Androgyne, Genderqueer, Intergender, Ambigender, Bigender, Neutrois, Androgynous, Eunichs, Androgyny, Non-Conforming Gender, Gender Benders, Non-Conforming Gender Roles

Non-Binary Basics
Non-Binary: Basics: Basics Definitions
Basic Transgender Definitions [Video: Calpernia Adams]including Androgyne, Genderqueer, and Gender Binary
Video: Androgyny - In/defined
What is an androgyne anyway? Zythyra  The Bilerco Project May 11, 2008 12:30 PM
[Emerald]Are you an Androgyne?
An issue with the word Androgyne

Non-Binary: Basics: Statistics
Is Androgyne Common?
Androgyne and Androgynous Statistics
What type of Androgyne are you? (Poll + Posts).
What type of Transgender are you? (Poll + Posts) (Androgyne is one of the votes).
How many genders are there? (Poll+Posts)
Whats your personality type and does it influence your gender expressiveness
Androgynes: How old are you?
Androgynes - your sexual orientation?

Non-Binary: Basics: Gender Identity
Are there such things as gender specific traits? (Poll+Posts)
What brained are you? (androgynes) [Poll]
Would You Say You Were Scatterbrained [Poll]
Possible to have GID towards being intersexed?
Some basic Androgyne Questions
Androgynes: How lazy or active are you?
Are androgynes transgendered?

Non-Binary: Basics: Gender Identity: Self-Knowledge
Do you know yourself and if so, how? [Self-Knowledge] [Poll]
Who or what do you see when you look inside?
What do you feel defines you (as an androgyne) most?
How does one know one is androgyne or male/female?
Playing hooky today

Non-Binary: Basics: Gender Identity: Acceptance
Androgyne: Hardest and Yet Easiest Realization to Have
I am an androgyne but find it hard too accept: [Self-Knowledge+Self Acceptance]
How good is your Self-Esteem?  [Poll]

Androgyne: Basics: Gender Identity: Influences of Androgyny
What ways does androgyny affect you? (Poll)
Here is what you voted as being most important to you of a androgynic influence.
How do you change yourself?

Non-Binary: Basics: Gender Identity: Obstacles
What are some unique obstacles androgynes face?
What obstacles do you face as an androgyne [Poll]
What are your fears that cause trouble, hesitation, discomfort, blockage, nightmares, inaction, inability to accept, social fears, and / or physical fears? [Poll]
Fear of Rejection: Androgyne
What are your Romantic and Intimate relationship fears ?
What are some of your androgyne failures, mistakes, or problems?
What are some of your androgyne victories?

Non-Binary: Basics: Gender Identity: Gender Dysphoria
What is your level of discomfort regarding your birth gender? [Poll] 
Of the ten items below, which one best describes you and your gender situation? (Poll+Posts)

Non-Binary: Basics: General
What does gender transition mean to you. (Variety of transitions not just TS) (Poll+Posts)
Can I stop being TG?
The Cogiati (combined gender identity and transsexuality inventory) test
Androgynous Male Slideshow
So is there a place for she-males?
Androgyne cooperation, nonagression?
Nero interviews androgynes on common beliefs and misconceptions
Pangender?

For Androgyny Also see posts in the section Androgyne: Social and Relations: Social Acceptance
ANDROGYNY BECOMING GLOBAL? (March 2005)
Gender Variant people need some serious PR/marketing


Against Androgyny
I put a post against androgyny in the activism section.
One person's fight against Androgyny.
Another article against Androgyny: in Relationships [Sept 1999]
Gender-bending avatars [inhuman + less credible] [News]
Another even older Against Androgyny (January 1, 1995)
Against learned androgyny [Feminism](Spring 2005)
Why don't you believe in androgyne as a gender identity?

Non-Binary: Labels
Labels/Gender-Matters yet it isnt supposed to.
Androgyne vs other transgender labels (analysis of article).
Why Does Labels really matter?
Definitions-"androgyne" and/or "genderqueer". 
Do you identify as Otherkin? If so, what type? (Poll)
Observable changes in wiki entry for Androgyny over time.


Androgyne: Discovery
Non-Binary: Discovery
Active More likely to respond to any posts or pms.
[Ken/Kendra][September 12, 2006] The point I started to decide to live more androgynous.
[Marq and Mia][Ken/Kendra] What experience made you realize you were Androgyne?
>[Marq and Mia][November 07, 2006] Bigender realization.
[sparkles][March 17, 2007] I think I found the place for me.
[Tay][April 08, 2007] Tay and Sophia say hi!
Pica Pica says hello.
[no-id][July 07, 2007] The Journal Entry
[no-id][July 07, 2007] XX + ?
[Seshatneferw] Am I? I guess I am.

Non-Binary: Coming Out/Transitioning
Where are you at in your Androgyne Experience?
How do you explain to others when you feel between genders?
Coming out to friends Androgyne Style.
Starting to finalize my 'coming out...'
I got a writing from my girlfriend telling me how she felt.
I told my best friend
Somehow I am suddenly confusing myself... (telling friends and coworkers)
Parents are so difficult!

Non-Binary: Therapy
Has anyone gone to a therapist specifically for something like being androgyne?
 Diagnosis GID?

Non-Binary: Forum Option in Profile
Susan's Gender Options. Male, Female, or leave it blank.
Gender selection at boards here.
Gender pronoun preference in profiles (solution)

Non-Binary and Other Gender: Subtypes
Non-Binary: Ambigender/Interdressing/Androgynous: Mixed Gender
Ambigender. paths travelled, puzzles solved, questions unanswered, concerns
Living in Unstealth (mixed dressing).
Passing. How important is it to you (Interdressing vs Others).
Question for female born androgynes
Who is that? [Laurry: new wig/and shaven]
mixed body for mixed mind
Just where is it that we are Transitioning to ? 
The idea of writing a book about the androgyne experience. 
 

Multiple Gender/Plurality/Bigender
Collaborative Guide to Bigender/N-spirited/Plural people eff
A List of Essays
For Context
More Questions About Bigender
Astraea's Web- Definitions, Articles, Information 
Splitting in Two.
Bigender vs Crossdresser.
Do bigender go out, when in fem mode, in fem attire?
Am I transsexual, or a bigender androgyne?
Torn between two
All about us
Making Progress
Sexual Orientation
Facets and Medians Facets
Terminology
Voice Changes
Telling therapists?
Avatar designer
Therapist Session

Non-Binary: Neutrois: Neither Gender
What are Neutrois?
Neutrois.
Being outside the gender spectrum.
How to dress Neutral styles/colors.
Man v Not man, female v not female.
Preferring gender neutrality from others.
Gender neutral bathrooms
Your biggest challenge as a non-gendered person
Unisex Hairstyles
Part male, part neutrois?
Genderfree Swimsuits
Non-Binary: Fluid: Changing Gender Modes
Q&A Gender vs Situations.
Watching Football brings out the male in me.
Unconscious mannerism when in one mode.
Can Gender shift?
Anyone here shift between feeling male and female?
What is Gender Fluid

Androgynous Expression
Androgynous Expression: Ken/Kendra's Androgynous Appearance Guides
The Poll is the basis for observing which parts of appearance is important to androgynes, and in what priority.
Poll: What part of Grooming or your Body do you feel is most important?
Combined Androgynous Hygiene guide
Part 1
Part 2
What do you think an androgynic voice is like?
Odors, scents, perfumes, colognes
What kind of tattoos do you or would you get? (Androgynes)

Androgynous Expression: Personal Hygiene/Appearance
Shaving.
People treate you better when you are more comfortable with yourself appearance wise.
Are these androgyne hairstyles silly?
Hair Removal/slowing Products.
Hehe, here's a picture of me. ^_^
More pictures. O_O
Hair Removal - sneezing
Androgynity and appearance (vs psychological androgyny)
on physical appearance
can i have some opinions?
What kind of Products do you use? [Poll] [M F Both Neither]
Beards?
Makeup and androgynes 
bleaching arm hair
How to look androgynous?

Androgynous Expression: Androgynous Clothing/ Interdressing
What Kind of details are you looking for about androgynous clothing?
Androgynous Clothing.
Androgynous Shoes.
Purses, wallets, carrying utilities.
Androgyne friendly clothing companies?
Possible work clothes.
Graduation
Unisex clothing sources
has anyone here ever given thought to things that are distinctly androgynous thoughts, actions, interests, styles of dress, body language, or other aspects of self, that have little to no influence of either masculinity nor femininity?Non-Binary Expression


Non-Binary Expression: Physical Alterations:
Where should I start, now that I feel and realize my identity.
What changes have you considered? Contemplated SRS?
Breast size for androgynes...
Reducing Breast size.
Medical services (ftm top surgery)
Any androgynes fully transition?
Acquiring Hormones.
Breasts on someone androgynous looking. [Poll]
post-gender and body modification
A few things
HRT for androgynes

Non-Binary Expression: Voice and Communication:
Lowering Voice Technique.
Free female voice workbook.
What do you think an androgynic voice is like?
Wanting to learn additional communication ways
Androgynous voice ?

Non-Binary Expression: Gender Neutral Pronouns:
Adopting Gender Neutral Pronouns.
Correcting people using wrong pronouns.
Why use gender neutral pronouns in english?

Non-Binary Expression:
Unisex Names
Unisex Game Names
Picking names for each gender side.
Getting Name legally changed to a androgyne name.
Changing name to gender neutral...
Nickname (no pun intended)
Non-gendered titles
It seems to make sense that I should choose a name that represents both genders or no gender at all, which is how I identify now.
Trying out a new name
Titles
A truly androgynous name

Non-Binary: Theory
Non-Binary: Theory
Deep Gender Discussion and Observations.
Bem and Androgyny: Origin, theories, discussions, equality
Advanced Androgyne?
Is Science going to be a Key or an impending Doom of the Androgyne?
Comments on Androgyne Online: main essay Revisions
Future Genderless Pregnancy.

Androgyne: Theory: Frame of Reference
Androgyne Frame of Reference
Androgyne Frame of Reference: Part II

Non-Binary: Theory: Spectrum
How Gender Blended are you? (Poll + Posts).
4 point spectrums (Tinkerbell).
Where are you on the gender spectrum? (spectrum from gender play to post op)
How Many Genders are there? (Poll + Posts).

Non-Binary: Theory: Symbols and Yin & Yang
Gender Symbology.
Yin and Yang.

Non-Binary: Theory: Color
Explaining Gender as Color.
What color is your gender?

Non-Binary: Theory: Gender Model
Simplified Gender Model - Just one possible opinion

Androgyne: Theory: Gender Grammar
gender 'grammar' [Androgyne Origin]

Non-Binary: Social and Relations
Androgyne: Social and Relations: Society & General
Gender Myopia.
Feminine males and masculine females and the Gray between.
Did any of you have family, friends, or parents that wanted to change you?
How many people know you are an androgyne? (Poll)
Which relative to you identify with most? And have the most in common. (Poll)
So are we really more talkative? [Poll]
Opinion of MtF's & FtM's concerning androgynes:: Poll Results
Everyone says it's a phase...

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Self Image
People treate you better when you are more comfortable with yourself appearance wise.

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Androgyne Invisibility
androgyne invisibility
Does anyone else ever feel... (Sometimes I feel like I will never fit in anywhere.)
Somehow I am suddenly confusing myself... (telling friends and coworkers)

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Friends
Liked more in game genderless , than just one gender.
My best friend (that knows all about me) is moving away.
I told my best friend

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Family
Parents are so difficult!
The Perfect One-Parent Household?

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Work
Work vs Intergender/Bigender.
Friend at work expressing things about androgynous look.

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Social Acceptance
Centerfold models are getting more androgynous.
Radio stations using androgynous voices?
Both genders are immersing themselves, skinny is in -- not just for girls.
Asian Men Emigrating to Venus (July 2006 article)

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Social Pressure
Clue: Social Anxiety before knowing one is Androgynous.
Pressure to conform to polar genders.
Mixed Gender embarassment.
apparently being bigendered makes me crazy

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Social Equality
Poll For Androgyne: Transgender Equality

Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Passing
Passing or Acceptance, redux
Do you think andros need to pass?
Andogyne 'passing'
Should I even care about "passing"? [crossdressers]
Passing. How important is it to you?
Can one live as their target gender without passing?
do you think I can pass type questions[transsexual]
The woes of passing well [transsexual]

Non-Binary: Love, Lust, Desire, and Romance
Non-Binary: Love, Lust, Desire, and Romance
Study: Romantic attitude of masculinity,femininity,androgyny,undifferentiated
Is Orientation important for androgynes?
Attractions.
When I first told my lover I was Intergender.
How has being transgender hurt your relationships?
How has being transgender helped your relationships?
Having a hard time finding love...
How is your current, past, or future relationship (love) defined, roles, rules?
Does anyone have any dating advice?
I found this Yoga article fascinating, compared to intimacy.
What are your Romantic and Intimate relationship fears ?
Dating and Sex
Sexuality and Significant Others

Non-Binary: Behavior
Non-Binary: Behavior
Gaming as a way to explore Gender.
Dreams as different gendered persons.
Left home alone
Tay's grand adventure (crossplaying)
androgyne cool? Talkin' charisma, babies!
Show me your Strut!

Non-Binary: Behavior: Breaking Gender Rules
Whats one or more biggest binary (polar) assumptions you disagree with or break?
Proud

Non-Binary: Behavior: Gender Divide & Gender Mixture
Gender Identity-masculine vs feminine test.
What is it to be a man? What is it to be a woman?
Does gender behavior influence one's technology level?
Driving : Male vs Female concerning androgynes.
Trying to understand..M v F.
Are you more male than female?
Girl vs Boy likes/dislikes.
Gender mix vs magazines.
Gender Divide in Interests.
Future Genderless Pregnancy.

Non-Binary: Behavior: Behavior Origin
Gender made up of Interpretation, Biology, and How one is raised.
What came first mannerism or acceptance of mannerism.

Non-Binary Behavior: Masculinity
What part of the masculinity in you do you enjoy?
The man in me.

Non-Binary: Behavior: Femininity
Tomboys and Tomgirls?

Non-Binary: Behavior: Loosing Masculinity
What happened to my masculinity?
Feeling split in half.

Non-Binary: Entertainment and Art
Androgyne: Celebrations
This is what is means to be an Androgyne...

Non-Binary: Art
Why is androgyny somewhat common in art and music?
Virtual Dolls.
Androgynous Japan.
Imagining Acamar
Manga and other transgender cartoons
I pass and I'm not proud [Poem by Rebis]

Androgyne: Humor or Socializing
For or Against Fruitcake.
Laughing then crying.
Kathy Griffin clip.
Androgyne comic.
You might be bigendered if ....
Why i can never understand american high school films
Is Androgyne an adult? whats an androgyne child?
I am more andro... then you!
A Theory For The Reeb
Silly Question How do 2 androgynous people Greet each other?
Top 10 Good Things About Being An Androgyne.

Purpose of this list
Dont know if I am totally bored, or just trying to make finding some good information easier and quicker. I had a little time and decided to make a categorized list of past posts from the androgyne section. I may sort of prioritize the posts or change the list a bit more.

This is meant to bring life into all the writings that have been made in this section that are still helpful. I felt that the current message board sort of hides the old messages and info, even though the information may still be useful, current, and something someone needs to know. This page sorta evens the playing field for even older important posts , and makes looking for them easier, based on what type of information is found within.

This also is meant for writers to see what has been written and to help them maybe write something new or write something different. Or tackles something just barely brushed on in prior posts.

And last, it sort of unifies the entire messageboard into a sort of almost magazine format where one could read the articles desired. All of the writers are blended together into one sorta logical book or magazine.

Tell me what you think. Send corrections, suggestions, and such to me PM or reply bellow.

Ken/Kendra

Updates
v1.1 1/8/07 added some polls from poll section, and other topics referring to androgyne type topics from TG general  and general posts.
v1.2 1/15/07 added the androgyne theory sections which divided from the basics. Also added the newer posts on personal grooming and any additional posts since last update.
v1.3 3/18/07 added androgynous clothing section and androgynous: discovery (I am not androgyne) sections
V1.5 4/24/07 added Androgyne: Confusion, Androgyne: Coming Out/Transitioning, Androgyne: Therapy, Androgyne: Love, Lust, Desire, and Romance and moved around posts to fit these new subcats. Added posts from last update to now. Added Wishy's blog to the list.
V1.6 6/01/07 just added the new posts. No major category changes.
V1.7 6/28/07 added some major new categories. History of Section with some early dates and major posts, divided up Society & Relations into friends, family, work, and society/general. A sub cat in behavior called loosing masculinity, divided Basic up into definitions, statistics, and general. Added a bunch of bigendered posts to that section, and of course all the new posts.
V2.0 7/05/07 divided society and behavior much more finally. Added Gender Expression titles to the applicable sections.
V2.1 7/12/07 added gender identity, gender invisibility, added new large titles to major sections, and updated posts up to now
V2.2 7/26/07 updated posts, then added For Androgyny
V2.3 8/29/07 Updated posts. Made subcategories in GID section
V2.4 10/4/07 Removed inactive androgyne discovery posts, added Frame of Reference to theory, updated posts
V2.5 10/31/07 Very few new posts. A slow month.
V2.6 7/10/08 Revising the list into Non-Binary FAQ. Deleted and condensed many sections. Expanded Plurality and Neutrois.
V2.7 8/16/8 Added section Non-Binary: Social and Relations: Passing with posts from WIG and Susans